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[Svalbard]

Person B does treat you like shit, just because he/she has to catalyze his/her anger somehow, because he/she can't stand up to the source of anger and bad treatment.

It seems that you have a good, objective grasp of the situation. In that case, I think it would be beneficial to make person B aware of the objective view, too. Provided that you explain to them calmly, and they're reasonable, it's possible that this higher-level understand of the situation would allow them to see their fault of taking out their anger on you.

Good luck,
Svalbard

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[crunchlord]

My opinion is 2 treat those people, twice as good than others, as I think they need it most, which isn't very easy most of the time.

This is a very mature and intelligent way to approach the situation, and you seem very neutral to these types of things.
Any angered soul will appreciate your presence.

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[Scotty279]

Try the old Japanese custom of 'Giri'.

[IoBoI]

People are frustrating I get pissed on a whim too but I find my patience is rewarded. What I like to do is the same thing you talked abt mix up their “opinions” and such firmly cemented beliefs and use it against them. If you try to throw dirt in my eye I will catch it and dish it back out on that person. And recently I find myself with a smart lady friend for the first time in awhile and god let me tell you it’s a trial, though I like to use my “charisma” to calm her down when I need to and sprinkle in good ideas to help her live a bit more freely and smartly. But it only will ever work through patience and genuine care, getting frustrated happens for example when she mentions doing certain drugs I don’t like I’ll fly off the hinges I’ve been with a girl and seen her rot from coke. She understands I have a temper and understands what I expect of her bc it takes 2 to tango.

Turning that rage energy into something constructive is hard but one method I found was working out or practicing fighting. So Atleast I can look a little better after I’ve calmed down. Bc drawing sure as shit is hard when you wanna ring someone’s neck out.

Final thought, females are just wave riders, not saying everyone is but almost every female is liable to the same stupid ideas men are just on a much much more frivolous and unnecessary scale. women generally don’t want to lead they look for someone to babysit and guide them. You know what really peaks my interest? Nerdy girls who study and have principles and are willing to learn instead of nuking their brains with drugs. It takes a lot of trust for me to open up but when I finally do for her it makes me wonder why I don’t live like this always.

But know if she does break your heart, skanks misdeeds are not unnoticed, natural selection handles them. I can genuinely say every female to ever treat me indecently has faced some sort of karmic justice.

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